Thailand changed the way I cook…

Thailand changed the way I cook.

Not in the dramatic, “I came home and threw away all my cookware” kind of way. More in the quieter, more lasting sense — the kind that sneaks into your instincts in the kitchen long after your suitcase is unpacked.

In early 2018, I spent time traveling throughout Thailand eating, cooking, wandering markets, drinking too much iced coffee, and trying to understand why food there feels so alive. It’s one thing to cook Thai food from a recipe. It’s another thing entirely to stand in a market at 7:00 in the morning while someone crushes fresh curry paste by hand three feet away from you and realize: oh… this is why it tastes like this.

The food in Thailand is deeply layered, but somehow never fussy. A bowl of noodles can be smoky, sour, sweet, spicy, herbal, and comforting all at once. And somehow the person making it often looks completely unbothered while balancing six pans over live fire in 95-degree heat.

Meanwhile, I’m over there sweating through linen and trying not to embarrass myself ordering snacks in broken Thai.

One of the biggest surprises of the trip was realizing how much of Thai cooking is built around rhythm and intuition rather than rigid recipes. Vendors would taste, adjust, toss in a handful of herbs, squeeze a lime, taste again — constantly calibrating. Cooking wasn’t treated like a performance. It was just part of daily life. Fast, sensory, communal, and deeply generous.

That perspective stays with you when you come home.

I think travel — especially food-focused travel — has a way of breaking us out of autopilot. You stop seeing ingredients as isolated grocery list items and start understanding the people, climate, history, and traditions behind them. Suddenly fish sauce isn’t just an ingredient in the back of your fridge. It’s the aroma of a night market in Chiang Mai. Curry paste isn’t just a shortcut or a project. It’s labor, patience, and family tradition.

And maybe most importantly, you come home less intimidated.

You realize cooking doesn’t need to be perfect to be meaningful. Some of the best meals we had were served on plastic stools, cooked from memory, and eaten shoulder-to-shoulder with strangers. There’s something incredibly freeing about that.

Since returning home, I’ve found myself cooking differently. More boldly. More instinctively. More willing to trust balance over perfection. More willing to invite people over even if the kitchen gets messy.

That’s ultimately why we’re so excited to offer our next PLAYTE Kitchen trip to Thailand in January/February 2027 in partnership with ENV Travel.

This won’t just be a sightseeing trip. It’ll be an opportunity to experience food where it actually lives — in markets, street stalls, family kitchens, farms, restaurants, and shared tables. To taste ingredients at their source. To learn directly from the people who cook them every day. And hopefully to come home inspired not just to recreate dishes, but to cook and gather more fearlessly in your own life.

Also, fair warning: you may return home emotionally attached to mango sticky rice and iced Thai tea. I certainly did.

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Tom Kha Gai